Thursday, December 31, 2009

What do you think about a gay interracial teenage boyfriends?

I want to ask this guy out (I can tell he is interested), but the thing is I'm not sure how people at school will react. My friends and family are accepting of my bisexuality, but do people find this kind of relationship strange? Were both fifteen, Im white and he's chinese. (hottest one ive ever seen, which is why i don't want to pass this opportunity up)


Why is it that were in the 21st century and sexuality and race still manage to get you discriminated against? Will this ever be a problem from the past?What do you think about a gay interracial teenage boyfriends?
Jay... do you want people to decide ';what's good for you?'; go for it... who knows... you may never in ur life get this chance again...What do you think about a gay interracial teenage boyfriends?
So what if he's Chinese? I'd say, of all ethnic prejudices that remain, there is probably less prejudice against Asians than any other non-Caucasian group.





I'm not sure what *his* family would think, but you can ask him when you hang out with him.





I think it's worth a try for the experience! And I also agree that, at this point, there is more of an issue with guys loving guys, than there is with the ethnic mix.
Don't worry about what people think, most people won't care. I doubt many people will find it strange, and if your friends and family have accepted you being bisexual then I bet they will accept you dating a chinese guy.


Remember: People who care don't matter and people who matter don't care. If people give you sh!t for going out with someone who is a different race to you, then just forget about it and get on with life. They will see that you don't care and won't bother annoying you :)
Ask him out! You've answered your own question my friend! ';Race'; isn't a real thing, it's just a concept. The genetic variation between you and this guy is so minimal, it's not much different than between you and your next door neighbour! So he looks different? Is THAT really a reason not to go out with someone. No. It's what's under his skin that counts, just like you. Depending on where you live, some people will have a problem, but - and I don't mean this in a flippant way at all - if they can accept you having a same sex relationship, is ethnicity really that much of an issue?!





Go for it!
True, were in the 21st century and I believe that you need to have courage and do what your heart tells you, possibily study the guy, talk to him more, find out and be sure that he is interested and go for it








ps good luck
Go for it! who cares what other people think. its your life, if you think he'll make you happy than go out with him. If people can't handle it than that's their problem. they're probably just jealous anyhow that you found someone that you love and you are happy.
If you two like each other a lot then, even if people say anything, it won't bother you because you will have each other. Go for it! I am sure you two will be very happy together. Do you know if he is gay/bi?
You can't fashion your life according to what other people think, you can modify your behaviour to an acceptable point. But the innocence of intention is crucial and can stand up against judgements made.
If they except you being bisexual then they will except this. They love you and just want you to be happy. You are so lucky that your family is accepting of this.
So woh gives a Fluke about race. Like all my friends are white because they are awesome. And my crush dad is mix so hes kinda white ;)
you won't, just don't go around holding hand and making out in public, they'll give you more grief for being gay ... not cuz its interracial
Don't worry what anyone else thinks. If you keep worrying about everyone else you won't be able to live your life.
Just act like your friends at school and when you are alone or out of school become closer.
no problem with it
I don't see anything wrong with it.
i say screw what everyone else thinks and go for it!! ^_^

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