Thursday, December 31, 2009

What are the risks of being a teenage father?

Im just wondering, like if you have a job and fixing to graduate,whats the risk? But im 15 and fixing to have a job and a straight A student in high school what are the risks?What are the risks of being a teenage father?
le'ts see...





* you will not be able to go to college, despite your ';straight As';.


* you will miss out on all those college parties.


* you will miss out on those graduation parties, even if your only graduating from high school.


* you will have to find a better full time job (because your job doesn't pay enough).


* after finding a better full time job, you will need to find a night time job too.


* this means no time for school, so you'll be a drop out.


* being a drop out means that if you do find a job, chances are it's low pay, and you'll never get promoted, because they prefer to promote the educated employees.


* your girlfriend will expect you to come home after your 2 jobs, and help clean the house, and take care of the baby. ';How dare you feel too tired to help take care of the baby!'; is what she'll say.


* you won't be able to go out to eat, watch movies, play video games, IM, or text on your phone...


* you won't have a cell phone to text from, because you need that money to go towards the baby now.


* Diapers can cost $100s a month, depending on age of child and brand of diaper. Day care is $100 a week in most areas. Bottles, teething toys, books, formula, clothes vaccinations, doctor's visits for when baby is sick (a few times a year at least)... doctor's visits without health insurance will be thousands of dollars, just within the first few years, if not within the first year.





With no savings, and no long term plan... I believe you should say goodbye to all your friends, and life, and sunshine for about 18 years, at least. Oh, and don't plan on ever having sex again. Girls are going to stay away from you because you got someone else pregnant. The girls who don't mind that you have a kid will still stay away from you, because your baby's mom will threaten their lives, and because you'll be too tired to be any fun around them anyways.What are the risks of being a teenage father?
Well lets look at it this way...it's Saturday night and your friends just called saying they are going to a club and your invited. When you hang up the phone and turn around...there is a little person starring back at you starting to cry and your home alone, and there is no one else to watch the baby while you go out. You will miss out on a lot of opportunities with your friends and personal life. Although a child will change your life, for some it's for the better and others it's for the worst. and then the abuse starts.





Work on doing you first. Graduate first, go to college, get a job or career, and then find your mate and have a family...so about 25 yrs old would be good for you if you graduate on time.
What are the risks, geeez........ THE risk is you get one chance at being a responsible teenage father.


And don't even think you can shirk your responsibility with one child but will be a responsible father to other children one day, because once a schmuck, always a schmuck.
Well if you have it rite now you have to worry about homework and the baby and you wont get that much sleep. I say wait until you have a stable life with a good paying job so you can support your family. Go to mtv.com and watch 16 and pregnant it will help you understand and see how it is.
WHAT ARE THE RISKS!? BEING A FATER IN HIGHSCHOOL IS REALLY DUMB


YOU CANT GET A GOOD JOB WITHOUT A DIPLOMA (YOULL BE STUCK TAKING CARE OF A BABY AND WORKING TO GET CHILD SUPPORT)


THIS IS COMMON SENSE WHAT KIND OF DUMB QUESTION IS THAT
Please stop saying ';fixing'; ... and keep it in your pants. The risks are not living up to your true potential.
What are you asking??

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