Saturday, January 9, 2010

What would you do if you caught your teenage daughter looking at pornography?

Would act differently towards her, compared to your son in this situation?What would you do if you caught your teenage daughter looking at pornography?
I don't think its a bad thing; it's pretty normal. I think most people, some time in their life, have the curiosity to look at it.


I'd act the same to her as to a male, and be calm about it. Girls don't need to be excluded on these things; we're just as curious as guys.What would you do if you caught your teenage daughter looking at pornography?
Well, I wouldn't want her to feel that she did something wrong. Teenagers are curious- there is nothing wrong with that, it's just the way it is. I don't think I would treat her differently (but I don't have a son- so there wouldn't be a comparison) My parents caught me doing the same thing when I was a teenager- They asked why- I said I was curious about it, and they let it go- I wasn't made to feel that I had done anything naughty or disgusting.





If you haven't had the ';talk'; with her yet, then that would be a good time. I'm sure it would be a little uncomfortable (who wants their children to grow up and become sexually active?) but it is something that has to be done.
I actually had this problem when I was about 13/14 and again a few months ago. My parents just ignored it and we didn't say anything about it this second time. The first time my mom got drunk and questioned me about it. That was so embarrassing. Anyway, I wouldn't treat them differently than my son. To both I would make sure they understand that's not real life, nor something to strive for, but I would treat them the same. I just might have their dad talk to my son about it more than I would. But I would still make sure we both talked to them at some point about it, so they have both parents' input.
no not at all, if i ever had a daughter,


i wouldnt, because i have to admit


wen i was youngerishh i did look at


porn too , i mean come on ,wats the


difference between a girl and guy wanting


to look at porn, their the same curisoutiy


the only thing thats differnt is well, the gender.


i wouldnt act different, its normal to watch


sex or want to see how its done.
Well im a teenage and if I was my mother I would look at me differently.


It would be different knowing she had interest in that.





I've looked at porn before.


Not because I like it but because I was just curious.


But i've only seen it a couple times.


I don't really intend on looking at anymore.


But it was weird for me because it was from my mom's collection.


She has a three videos that her friend gave her from a long time ago.


So I think that's a little bit worse.
i would be completely fine with it. of course she is going to be interested and probably like it too. theres a reason its the most number 1 looked at thing on the web, because everyone is interested in it. i look at it and I'm a girl (my parents don't know though but i also don't live at home anymore
Really girls can be just as interested as boys so I would just have the talk about sex and such if I hadn't already and make sure they understand things and answer any questions they may have. I wouldn't punish them or anything because that just makes matters worse.
Talk to her. Just see, its natural for her to be curious but its important you guys talk, and she realizes that pornography is wrong and degrading.
nothing. its quite normal to be curious about sex at this age. i would talk to her about sex and all that its about and how to protect herself emotionally and physically.
well, its a natural part of human nature, so no i dont care, if she's gonna have sex, i'll ask her to wear protection. if she gets pregnant, she gets kicked out.
I would take the computer away for two weeks the first time she is caught. If she is caught the second time, I will take the computer away for 1 months.
Nothing wrong with being curious, especially at her age. I would be hella shock but I would talk to her about ';sex'; so she'll understand it more.
Id be thankful she's not out screwing a million random guys. Id feel the same towards my son.
nope not at all. girls are just as interested as boys....we just dont run around wanting to boink everything we see =)
Nope.





They are curious
time to have ';The Talk';

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